Mediation provides a viable framework for todays “Modern Family”; gay and lesbian couples who are transitioning out of their relationships. The dissolution of any partnership results in a wide variety of issues. This is especially the case with the dissolution of a domestic partnership or cohabitation arrangement. For couples terminating a domestic partnership in New Jersey, the procedure is similar to that for divorce. A variety of issues accompanying these relationships in transition can be resolved through mediation.
These include:
Asset division
Debt division
Property division
Child custody
Child support
Pet custody
The understanding-based model of mediation applies equally to unmarried and same-sex couples who find themselves separating. During mediation, the couple will meet with a mediator who is specifically trained in the skills of resolving conflicts. Mediation is both a viable and valuable tool in high conflict and amicable scenarios. The mediator guides the parties toward settlement by opening the lines of communication — listening carefully to the concerns and ideas of each side and encouraging them to listen to one another with an open mind. This allows disputing parties to clarify their differences, understand each other’s views, look at possible solutions and ultimately reach agreement that all parties are satisfied with. Successful mediation allows the parties to maintain control over the important decisions in their uniquely specific situation while saving time and money by avoiding the judicial system. Mediation is strictly confidential and is not subject to public record. Mediation is for the “Modern Family”.
For those embarking on a “Modern Family” style relationship, Mediation can assist in establishing a comprehensive cohabitation arrangement (similar to a Prenup) which would provide a framework in the event the couple wishes to transition out of the relationship.
Roseann’s experience and credentials alone set her apart from other professional mediators in the state. She has an extensive business and financial background, and worked for many years in a corporate setting. Roseann is also very personable, down-to-earth, and she is truly passionate about her work. Having been through a divorce herself and benefited from the advantages of mediation, Roseann brings a unique perspective along with the ability to remain impartial while deeply empathizing with what each party is going through.
Carmela DeNicola is a business and workplace mediator with over three decades of executive experience in the corporate world. Carmela handles all types of business and workplace mediation. She works with municipalities, schools, private companies, partnerships, non-profits, and any other type of entity. Carmela can be reached at cd@advancedmediationsolutions.net or 856-669-7172
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Mediation is helpful for all the couples who are breaking their relationship and want to settle their relationship. Now it’s also helpful in the case of the couples of having same gender and wants to separate from their partner.